I would not have considered myself a runner growing up. I was always pretty good at running and had decent endurance. I played soccer year round until I graduated high school. I chose not to pursue soccer past high school; it was beginning to feel like more of a chore than fun and I wanted to party. I ran a lot for soccer and would go for runs here and there with my mom. I think I ran a 5K with my parents when I was young, but only because I wanted the t-shirt you got for signing up. For about four years during college, I did absolutely nothing. No exercising. I would go to school, work, and party. That’s basically it. I didn’t have any desire to exercise. Because I went to college in Boston, I watched the Boston Marathon every year. My Dad also ran it most of the years I was in school. I always thought the people running were crazy and didn’t know why anyone would want to run 26.2 miles.
I became a runner in 2016. My apartment at the time in Baltimore was right on the promenade. If you are not familiar with Baltimore, the promenade is a couple mile stretch along the harbor that is very popular for runners, walkers, etc. I was sitting on my couch one day staring out the window and watching people run by. I randomly decided to go for a run. I probably ran about 2.5 miles. I don’t know for sure because I didn’t have a watch or any apps on my phone. It was hard, but I felt so good after! I remember saying, “Wow! That was amazing!” when I returned home. I continued going for runs a couple times a week, usually no more than 5 miles at a time.
The promenade in Baltimore
A few months after the day I went for my first run in Baltimore, I temporarily relocated to California for a year. I was 29 years old and working from home. I didn’t know anyone, so I would go for runs to get out of the house. With my 30th birthday around the corner, I had a mini crisis: I didn’t know where my life was going. I had no specific hobbies and wasn’t passionate about anything in particular. I got the idea in my head that I wanted to run a marathon when I turned 30, but realized I should probably do a half first. I signed up and ran my first half marathon: the Golden Gate Half in San Francisco in November 2016. I remember my first 10 mile training run being so hard, but so rewarding! I had no idea I could run that far until I tried. I was pretty sore and tired after. I think I stayed in bed the remainder of that day. My Dad, who is also a runner, was very excited that I was doing a half and flew to San Francisco to run it with me. My uncle, who was living in the area at the time, ran with us also. I didn’t really know much about pacing and was just trying to finish. My uncle chatted away the whole race and it made it go by a lot easier than if I had been running by myself. We finished in 1:59. I was hooked!
My first half marathon-Golden Gate Half in November 2016
My first marathon was in February 2017, a week after I turned 30. I ran the Arizona Marathon, which was a small race and pretty flat. My dad ran it with me as well. Plus, it was perfect that my sister was living in Scottsdale. The longest run I had done leading up to it was 20.5 miles and I remember that I had to stop a few times during that run because I was tired. I didn’t really have a pacing strategy for the marathon. I planned to give it all I had. I was still very new to running and didn’t know much about pacing or fueling and all of that. I recall during the race thinking “Why am I doing this? It’s really hard. I’m never doing this again.” However, I felt such joy when I finished and proved to myself that I did it! I accomplished it! It is like no other feeling, even though I could hardly walk after. Of course, a few hours after I finished I signed up for another marathon. To date, I’ve finished 11 marathons and I don’t plan on stopping anytime soon!
There are times when I will get down on myself for not starting running and racing earlier, but, you know what? It’s never too late to start! The time will pass anyway. I would have been too distracted and not disciplined enough to take running seriously earlier in my life. I would not have loved it then the way I do now! This is the journey I was meant to be on and I am so thankful that I found running!
Amanda says
You are so awesome! I love seeing your updates on IG. I’ll be running my 1st marathon (at the age of 36) in March. I’m terrified. You are an inspiration! FYI seems like we lived in Boston at the same time. I was there from 2012-2016!
carlyspat28 says
Aww thank you! That’s amazing! Don’t be terrified, you’ll do great! That’s funny, Boston is such a great city. Good luck with your running!